If you're a dog parent planning your wedding, including your furry friends in your wedding is a bit of a no-brainer. After all, they're not just pets; they're beloved members of the family, and their presence can add an extra dose of love and humour to your day. 

As a celebrant (not to mention owner of two pups), I love nothing more than a couple telling me they want their dog involved in the ceremony. 

But — as with people — every dog is different. Some are nervous, some are a little over enthusiastic, some will need constant management while others are super chilled. So, just like giving your family members and friends jobs that suit them on your day, (erm — like not asking friends who are terrified of public speaking to do readings or be Master of Ceremonies!) finding the right role for your dog is also paramount.

Dogs love a job, so get them involved! Let's explore some fun and cute ways to include dogs in your wedding ceremony...

1. Dog of Honor or Flower Dog:

Why not bestow your canine BFF the prestigious role of "Dog of Honor"? This title can come with a special outfit like a bow tie, floral collar, or even a mini tuxedo or dress. They can walk down the aisle alongside the bridal party with a designated handler or a pet-loving friend that your dog knows and trusts.

2. Ring Bearer:

For an adorable twist on traditional roles, let your dog take on the duties of ring bearer. You can attach a pouch to their collar with the rings, and watch as they proudly walk down the aisle. Just be sure to practice the route with them beforehand and have a trusted handler. They're carrying important cargo, so to make sure there's no room for error you might want their handler to look after the rings until the moment your dog brings them up!

3. Pup-Approved Decor:

Incorporate your dog's presence into the wedding decor with personalised touches. You could even create custom signage that includes their name, like "Here Comes the Bride... and Pepper!" 

4. Canine Certificate Signing:

If you decide to sign a certificate as part of your ceremony, you can get your dog to bear witness . They create their own special place on your certificate by dipping their paw in ink. Your celebrant will be able to help with this.

5. Exchange of Vows:

Include a special moment in the ceremony where you and your partner exchange vows not just with each other, but also with your dog. This super cute gesture symbolises the joining of your entire family. I've done a wedding before where the dog could bark on command, so we had the dog bark in reply with their own vows. 

6. Include Them in Photos:

Capture your dog making an appearance in wedding photos. Whether it's formal portraits, candid shots, or even a dedicated photo session with your dog before or after the ceremony. This will ensure they're comfortable and relaxed.

7. Mention them in your ceremony script:

If you work with a celebrant, they'll be sure to find out all about your dog and weave them into your bespoke script. Because they're a big part of your life, the ceremonies I write always heavily feature the important fluffy family members in a couple's lives.

8. Professional Pet Care:

If you're worried about managing your dog during the festivities, consider hiring a professional dog handler or sitter. As a dog owner and celebrant, I cannot recommend this enough. No matter how cute they are, it’s a big responsibility. Guests don’t want to be held accountable for a dog all day. It’s something you won't want to worry about either.

They need a lot of care, as well as time away from the overly stimulating environment of a big wedding with tons of (drunk) people constantly trying to pet them. A pet sitter can walk, feed, and entertain your pup, allowing you to focus on the matter at hand.

9. Favors for Furry Guests:

Show appreciation to your doggy guests with special favours. Treat bags filled with dog treats, personalised bandanas or custom toys can make them feel like VIPs at the celebration.

10. Plan for Comfort:

On the day of the wedding, ensure your dog's comfort and well-being. Provide a quiet, shaded area with water and familiar bedding where they can relax between their star appearances.

11. An ode to missing pets:

If your dog is unable to be at the wedding — either for practical reasons (maybe the venue doesn't allow dogs) or due to age or nervousness, your celebrant can incorporate your dog into the ceremony with some kind of tribute or letter from the dog.

From experience, I know that having your dog in your wedding ceremony will add endless laughs and sweet moments. Whether they're walking down the aisle, wearing a dapper outfit, or simply being present, their presence will undoubtedly make the day even more special.

Remember, every dog is different, so tailor these ideas to suit your furry friend's personality and comfort level. With a little planning, creativity, and lots of treats, your wedding day can be elevated by finding that star role for your dog. Even if they act up (what’s that rule about not working with kids and pets?!) it just provides laughs and comic relief all round. 

If you're new to celebrant-led weddings, here are a couple of guides to what they entail (and why you should absolutely have one!):

What is the difference between a civil ceremony and a humanist ceremony?

What does a celebrant do and what is the process of working together?